Both
of you are basically charming and civilized beings. But some specific conversations can wake
up that furious uncivilized bad person in you. Family, expenses, past love, sex and
physical appearance are 5 topics that you should avoid in conversing with your
partner to maintain a peaceful environment.
Her mother / your mother: Yes, you can criticize
anything, her best friend Kamala(for ex.,), her style of cooking or questionable sartorial
tastes. But don’t try to comment on her parents! You arrive in the
red zone: because she is the first woman she loved. She fed, cuddled, grown her
up for thirty years. She will remain in your partner’s eyes as a holy and
untouchable. So just stay away.
Money: It is rare that a boy marries a very economical
inveterate cheapskate or a spendthrift finds the woman of his dreams who is
equally a big spender. Usually in a matrimonial, it is rather the opposites that
attract. Hence conflicts usually often arise between spouses on this
subject. A husband can ask gently on the price of each of her shopped clothing. Or
conversely, a wife can ask if buying new speakers for home cinema was really
necessary.
Your respective ex: Either men or women cannot bear
competition. So it is advisable to stay very cryptic about people who have
gone in your lives before your matrimony. It your husband says that his Ex
used to buy him lot of gifts, just ignore and laugh it off.
Physical appearance: Don’t criticize on the
physical appearance of your partner. It will only create rift between you
couple. Help your partner to overcome that physical challenge. You have
promised to stay together for the entire life. So don’t sulk on their
weaknesses.
Sexual prowess: If you talk about sex while
you do it is recommended, but afterwards don’t discuss the same. So shun remarks
like "you were not very fit" or "you could have done better".
These will immediately upset your life partner.
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