5 Things Married Couple Should Avoid To Discuss

Both of you are basically charming and civilized beings. But some specific conversations can wake up that furious uncivilized bad person in you. Family, expenses, past love, sex and physical appearance are 5 topics that you should avoid in conversing with your partner to maintain a peaceful environment.

Her mother / your mother: Yes, you can criticize anything, her best friend Kamala(for ex.,), her style of cooking or questionable sartorial tastes. But don’t try to comment on her parents! You arrive in the red zone: because she is the first woman she loved. She fed, cuddled, grown her up for thirty years. She will remain in your partner’s eyes as a holy and untouchable. So just stay away.

Money: It is rare that a boy marries a very economical inveterate cheapskate or a spendthrift finds the woman of his dreams who is equally a big spender. Usually in a matrimonial, it is rather the opposites that attract. Hence conflicts usually often arise between spouses on this subject. A husband can ask gently on the price of each of her shopped clothing. Or conversely, a wife can ask if buying new speakers for home cinema was really necessary. 

Your respective ex: Either men or women cannot bear competition. So it is advisable to stay very cryptic about people who have gone in your lives before your matrimony. It your husband says that his Ex used to buy him lot of gifts, just ignore and laugh it off.

Physical appearance: Don’t criticize on the physical appearance of your partner. It will only create rift between you couple. Help your partner to overcome that physical challenge. You have promised to stay together for the entire life. So don’t sulk on their weaknesses.

Sexual prowess: If you talk about sex while you do it is recommended, but afterwards don’t discuss the same. So shun remarks like "you were not very fit" or "you could have done better". These will immediately upset your life partner.

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